Becoming a parent has changed the risk calculus for me. But it might be age, too, and seeing a lot of friends die in the mountains. Will I take the same risks I took in my 20s? Probably not, but I will always push myself in the mountains.
Interpretation
Becoming a parent shifts one's perspective on risk and adventure, balancing safety with the desire for challenge.
In this quote, Jimmy Chin reflects on how parenthood has influenced his approach to risk-taking, particularly in the context of his mountain adventures. He acknowledges that experiencing loss among friends has also contributed to a more cautious mindset, yet he affirms his commitment to continue pushing his limits, highlighting the duality of embracing adventure while acknowledging the responsibilities that come with being a parent.
In practice
This quote can be used in discussions about the impact of parenthood on personal choices during a parenting seminar.
On climbs, there is a general way we manage fear. We look at things objectively, separating out perceived risk from real risk. You can really bring down the level of fear by knowing the real risks and setting aside the others. You also know that panicking just makes things worse.
You learn over years of expeditions that having faith, and putting one foot in front of the other, you do end up pulling off climbs that seem completely impossible. There's a certain beauty to that. It has an allure.
You do wonder - when you are at 28,000 feet, the height that aeroplanes cruise at, when you are struggling to draw breath and every limb aches - why do I do this?
The two great risks are risking too much but also risking too little. That's for each person to decide. For me, not risking anything is worse than death. By far.
The mainstream audience has a certain picture of what climbing is all about: man conquering mountain. But you can't conquer a mountain, though it may conquer you.
It's hard to take people seriously who say you're totally irresponsible if you go out and climb mountains when you have kids, because they clearly don't understand the circumstances. You can't impose your own acceptance of risk on other people - that's not fair.
Faith ventures and hazards . . . counting the costs and delighting in the sacrifice.
I believe that one of life's greatest risks is never daring to risk.
The civil rights movement was based on faith. Many of us who were participants in this movement saw our involvement as an extension of our faith. We saw ourselves doing the work of the Almighty. Segregation and racial discrimination were not in keeping with our faith, so we had to do something.
There is no law for farm labor organizing, save the law of the jungle.
What the Anzac legend did do, by the bravery and sacrifice of our troops, was reinforce our own cultural notions of independence, mateship, and ingenuity. Of resilience and courage in adversity.
We face neither East nor West: we face forward.
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