Children love and want to be loved and they very much prefer the joy of accomplishment to the triumph of hateful failure. Do not mistake a child for his symptom.
Erik EriksonRead
Parents must not only have certain ways of guiding by prohibition and permission, they must also be able to represent to the child a deep, almost somatic conviction that there is meaning in what they are doing.
Interpretation
Parents should guide their children with both rules and a strong belief in the value of their guidance.
In this quote, Erik Erikson emphasizes the critical role of parents in not just establishing boundaries through prohibitions and permissions, but also in embodying a profound belief in the meaningfulness of their actions. This deep conviction is essential for instilling a sense of purpose and understanding in children, enabling them to grasp the importance of behavior and decision-making in their own lives.
In practice
During a parenting workshop focused on effective communication with children.
Children love and want to be loved and they very much prefer the joy of accomplishment to the triumph of hateful failure. Do not mistake a child for his symptom.
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