Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.
The patient is not likely to recover who makes the doctor his heir.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that those who overly rely on others, particularly in their most vulnerable moments, may neglect their own responsibility for recovery.
Thomas Fuller’s quote reflects the notion that dependence on external support, especially in critical situations such as health, can lead to a lack of personal initiative in recovery. By suggesting that a patient who makes their doctor their heir is less likely to recover, Fuller emphasizes the importance of taking charge of one’s own fate and not surrendering all agency to another person, no matter how qualified or well-intentioned they may be.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech to inspire people to take charge of their health and decisions.
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He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he must pass himself; for every man has need to be forgiven.
He is poor indeed that can promise nothing.
'Tis better to suffer wrong than do it.
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