If you want peace, you don't talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.
Interpretation
To achieve peace, one must engage with those who oppose you rather than just conversing with allies.
Desmond Tutu emphasizes that true peace comes from addressing conflicts and engaging in dialogue with adversaries, rather than merely discussing issues with friends who share your views. This approach encourages understanding and reconciliation, suggesting that confronting differences is essential for lasting peace.
In practice
In a speech about conflict resolution, one might say, 'As Desmond Tutu stated, if you want peace, you talk to your enemies.'
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