How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Most people are basically a victim of the circumstances of their life. They have things like 9/11, they have terrorism threats, they have new war threats, they have economy problems, and they think, 'What can I do? I'm basically a victim.'
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that people often feel powerless, attributing their struggles to external circumstances.
In this quote, Stephen Covey highlights a common mindset where individuals perceive themselves as victims of their life's circumstances, such as societal events or economic challenges. This perspective can lead to feelings of helplessness, as people focus on external factors rather than recognizing their own agency in responding to these challenges. Covey implies that empowerment comes from understanding that although circumstances can be difficult, individuals still have the ability to choose their reactions and actions in life.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
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Keep in mind that you are always saying "no" to something. If it isn't to the apparent and urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things.
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