How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
People behave more on the basis of how they feel than how they think; unless there are good feelings between people, it is almost impossible to reason intelligently.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Emotions often drive behavior more than rational thought, highlighting the importance of positive feelings in interactions.
In this quote, Stephen Covey emphasizes that human behavior is largely influenced by emotions rather than logical reasoning. The presence of good feelings between individuals fosters open communication and effective reasoning, suggesting that relationships built on trust and positivity enable better understanding and collaboration.
Themes
EmotionsBehaviorRelationshipsFeelingsCommunication
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting to foster collaboration, you might say, 'As Stephen Covey noted, positive feelings enhance our ability to reason intelligently together.'
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