If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.
Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as "Taking," you are not getting it. - Henry Cloud
Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as "Taking," you are not getting it.
- Henry Cloud
Whatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story. - Henry Cloud
Whatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story.
Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship. - Henry Cloud
Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain. - Henry Cloud
When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain.
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us t… - Henry Cloud
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us t…
Getting to the next level always requires ending something, leaving it behind, and moving on. Growth demands that we move on. Without the ability to … - Henry Cloud
Getting to the next level always requires ending something, leaving it behind, and moving on. Growth demands that we move on. Without the ability to …
A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not. - Henry Cloud
A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.
Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are. - Henry Cloud
Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback. - Henry Cloud
The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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