Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
To trust people is a luxury in which only the wealthy can indulge; the poor cannot afford it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Trusting others is often seen as a privilege that those with financial stability can afford, while those in poverty may feel they must be more cautious.
E. M. Forster's quote explores the idea that trust is not merely a personal choice but can also be influenced by one's socio-economic status. The wealthy often have the resources and security to trust others without fear of significant loss, whereas those who are financially struggling may feel they cannot afford the vulnerability that comes with trust, as betrayal could lead to greater hardship.
Themes
TrustWealthRelationshipsVulnerabilitySocio-Economic
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about financial challenges, one might quote Forster to highlight how trust can be a privilege.
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The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
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