The only perfect love to be found on earth is not sexual love, which is riddled with hostility and insecurity, but the wordless commitment of families, which takes as its model mother-love. This is not to say that fathers have no place, for father-love, with its driving for self-improvement and discipline, is also essential to survival, but that uncorrected father-love, father-love as it were practiced by both parents, is a way to annihilation.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes that true perfection in love lies within family bonds rather than romantic love, highlighting the importance of unconditional maternal love.
Germaine Greer's quote draws a distinction between different types of love, asserting that the most perfect form of love is found within familial relationships, particularly through the unconditional love of a mother. While acknowledging the significance of fatherly love, she warns that unbalanced or uncorrected fatherly love can lead to negative consequences. This suggests that love in its ideal form is characterized by commitment and nurturance, rather than conflict and insecurity often found in romantic relationships.
In practice
During a wedding speech, one might reflect on the unconditional love of family as foundational to a successful marriage.
It is often falsely assumed, even by feminists, that sexuality is the enemy of the female who really wants to develop these aspects of her personality, and this is perhaps the most misleading aspect of movements like the National Organization of Women. It was not the insistence upon her sex that weakened the American woman student's desire to make something of her education, but the insistence upon a passive sexual role
A library is a place where you can lose your innocence without losing your virginity.
Women live lives of continual apology. They are born and raised to take the blame for other people's behavior. If they are treated without respect, they tell themselves that they have failed to earn respect. If their husbands do not fancy them, it is because they are unattractive.
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Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of release.
Money cannot buy the fuel of love but is excellent kindling.
There is love enough in this world for everybody, if people will just look.
What could the Lord Jesus Christ have done for you more than he has? Then do not abuse his mercy, but let your time be spent in thinking and talking of the love of Jesus, who was incarnate for us, who was born of a woman, and made under the law, to redeem us from the wrath to come.
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But there is another way. And that is to organize mass non-violent resistance based on the principle of love. It seems to me that this is the only way as our eyes look to the future. As we look out across the years and across the generations, let us develop and move right here. We must discover the power of love, the power, the redemptive power of love. And when we discover that we will be able to make of this old world a new world. We will be able to make men better. Love is the only way.
All love will, one day, meet with its return. All true love will, one day, behold its own image in the eyes of the beloved, and be humbly glad.
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