We must never expect discretion in first love: it is accompanied by such excessive joy that unless the joy is allowed to overflow, it will choke you.
Alexandre DumasRead
A person who doubts himself is like a man who would enlist in the ranks of his enemies and bear arms against himself.
Interpretation
Self-doubt undermines one's own strength and potential.
In this quote, Alexandre Dumas emphasizes the detrimental impact of self-doubt on a person's identity and effectiveness. By equating self-doubt to enlisting in one's own enemies, he illustrates how undermining our self-belief can lead us to sabotage our own efforts and progress, turning our strengths into weaknesses.
In practice
During a motivational speech to encourage self-confidence in students.
We must never expect discretion in first love: it is accompanied by such excessive joy that unless the joy is allowed to overflow, it will choke you.
There are two ways of seeing: with the body and with the soul. The body's sight can sometimes forget, but the soul remembers forever.
I do not often laugh, sir, as you may perceive by the air of my countenance; but nevertheless, I retain the privilege of laughing when I please.
There is neither happiness nor misery in the world; there is only the comparison of one state with another, nothing more. He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.
Those born to wealth, and who have the means of gratifying every wish, know not what is the real happiness of life, just as those who have been tossed on the stormy waters of the ocean on a few frail planks can alone realize the blessings of fair weather.
It is the way of weakened minds to see everything through a black cloud. The soul forms its own horizons; your soul is darkened, and consequently the sky of the future appears stormy and unpromising
The single observation I would offer for your consideration is that some things are beyond your control. You can lose your health to illness or accident. You can lose your wealth to all manner of unpredictable sources. What are not easily stolen from you without your cooperation are your principles and your values. They are your most important possessions and, if carefully selected and nurtured, will well serve you and your fellow man.
The truths that I know best I have learned on my knees. I never know a thing well, till it is burned into my heart by prayer.
Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart people who'll argue with you.
It is equally important to investigate wellness as it is to study misery.
One day we will learn that the heart can never be totally right when the head is totally wrong
I always want to tell these young idealists that the world is not as dangerous as many in the older generation want them to believe...The [people] for whom I feel the greatest sadness are the ones who choke on their beliefs, who never act on their ideals, who never know the state of struggle in a decent cause, and never know the thrill of even partial victories.
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