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If a person says or does something that we consider offensive, our first obligation is to refuse to take offense and then communicate privately, honestly, and directly with that individual. Such an approach invites inspiration from the Holy Ghost and permits misperceptions to be clarified and true intent to be understood.
David A. Bednar
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We should not take offense easily and should communicate directly to resolve misunderstandings.

This quote emphasizes the importance of taking a step back when faced with offensive actions or words. Rather than reacting defensively, it encourages individuals to communicate openly and honestly with the offender to clarify intentions and resolve any misperceptions. This approach fosters understanding and helps invite positive influences, facilitating better relationships and personal growth.

Themes

CommunicationOffenseUnderstandingRelationshipsHonesty

In practice

Example use cases

A manager can use this quote to address conflict resolution in the workplace.

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