Hug the shore; let others try the deep.
VirgilRead
Is there any pleasure in anger? Yes, if the fire of my anger appeases the ashes of my friends.
Interpretation
Anger can have a purpose if it helps address issues among friends.
In this quote, Virgil suggests that anger, while often viewed negatively, can serve a constructive purpose within the context of friendship. The idea is that the energy of one's anger can be harnessed to resolve conflicts, protect loved ones, or bring about change, thus transforming a potentially destructive emotion into a force for good.
In practice
Using this quote in a discussion about conflict resolution in friendships.
Hug the shore; let others try the deep.
Even virtue is fairer when it appears in a beautiful person.
Happy the man who has been able to learn the causes of things.
Endure the present, and watch for better things.
Come what may, all bad fortune is to be conquered by endurance.
Fear is proof of a degenerate mind.
And then there are my friends, and they have their own lives. While they like to talk everything through, to analyze and hypothesize, what I really need, what I'm really looking for, is not something I can articulate. It's nonverbal: I need love. I need the thing that happens when your brain shuts off and your heart turns on. And I know it's around me somewhere, but I just can't feel it.
I never had intimate friends, and the few who came close are in New York. By which I mean they're dead, because that's where I suppose condemned souls go in order not to endure the truth of their past lives.
Go oft to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path.
There is nothing sweeter than to be sympathized with.
The Making of Friends Life is sweet because of the friends we have made And the things which in common we share; We want to live on, not because of ourselves, But because of the ones who would care. It's living and doing for somebody else On that all of life's splendor depends, And the joy of it all, when we count it all up, Is found in the making of friends.
There is no surer foundation for a beautiful friendship than a mutual taste in literature.
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