Those of us who can remember our childhoods will recall how ardently we relished the moment of the bedtime story, when our mother or father would sit down beside us in the semi-dark and read from a book of fairy tales.
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At that point, Noriko finally breaks down and begins to cry sobbing into her hands as the floodgates open - this young woman who has suffered in silence for so long, this good woman who refuse to believe she's good, for only the good doubt their own goodness, which is what makes them good in the first place. The bad know they are good, but the good know nothing. They spend their lives forgiving others, but they can't forgive themselves.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the struggles of self-worth and the complexities of goodness.
In this quote, Paul Auster explores the internal conflict faced by individuals who are inherently good but find it difficult to recognize their own goodness. The emotional breakdown of Noriko symbolizes the silent struggles many endure, emphasizing that those who are truly good often grapple with self-doubt and the ability to forgive themselves, unlike those whose moral compass is less sensitive.
Themes
Self-WorthGoodnessForgivenessStrugglesSelf-Doubt
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the importance of self-acceptance during a mental health seminar.
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