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I define power as 'control over one's life.' A balanced life is far superior to the male definition of power: earning money someone else spends while he dies sooner.
Warren Farrell
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True power comes from self-control and a balanced life rather than material wealth.

Warren Farrell emphasizes that real power lies in the ability to govern one's own life and achieve balance, rather than conforming to a traditional male-driven definition of power which often focuses on financial success at the expense of health and well-being. He contrasts the superficial allure of monetary gain with the deeper fulfillment and longevity that comes from leading a well-rounded life.

Themes

PowerBalanceLifeControlWealth

In practice

Example use cases

During a leadership workshop, this quote can be used to discuss the importance of personal well-being over mere financial success.

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