Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Anne LamottRead
You can either practice being right or practice being kind.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of choosing kindness over the need to be right.
Anne Lamott's quote suggests that in interpersonal interactions, one can choose to prioritize proving oneself correct or to engage in acts of kindness and compassion. This implies that fostering positive relationships and understanding often takes precedence over the desire to win arguments or showcase one's knowledge.
Themes
KindnessCompassionRelationshipsCommunicationWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a team meeting to emphasize the importance of collaboration over competition.
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