Many of our problems in US maternity care stem from the fact that we leave no room for recognizing when nature is smarter than we are.
Pregnant _x000D_ and birthing mothers are elemental forces, in the same sense that _x000D_ gravity, thunderstorms, earthquakes, and hurricanes are elemental _x000D_ forces. In order to understand the laws of their energy flow, you have _x000D_ to love and respect them for their magnificence at the same time that _x000D_ you study them with the accuracy of a true scientist.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the immense power and importance of pregnant and birthing mothers, comparing them to natural forces that demand love and scientific understanding.
Ina May Gaskin emphasizes the extraordinary strength and significance of mothers during pregnancy and childbirth. By comparing them to elemental forces like gravity and storms, she suggests that they are both awe-inspiring and worthy of deep respect. The call to love these forces while studying them speaks to the dual nature of appreciation and inquiry, advocating for both emotional connection and scientific scrutiny in understanding the childbirth process.
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In a lecture on maternal health, this quote can illustrate the strength and respect due to mothers.
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All quotes →A society that places a low value on its mothers and the process of birth will suffer an array of negative repercussions for doing so. Good beginnings make a positive difference in the world, so it is worth our while to provide the best possible care for mothers and babies throughout this extraordinarily influential part of life.
The way a culture treats women in birth is a good indicator of how well women and their contributions to society are valued and honored.
When we as a society begin to value mothers as the givers and supporters of life, then we will see social change in ways that matter.
Why do we, then, continue to treat women as if their emotions and comfort, and the postures they might want to assume while in labor, are against the rules?
Simply put, when there is no home birth in a society, or when home birth is driven completely underground, essential knowledge of women’s capacities in birth is lost to the people of that society—to professional caregivers, as well as to the women of childbearing age themselves.
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