I pray with my whole soul that the divide-and-conquerers among us will not triumph over us. We need each other in this world so desperately.
Ruby DeeRead
See, I don’t expect to win a prize for stoic control and dignity at mourning time. Death deserve tantrums. Beating back shocked indignation, kicks in the groin, stones, classified unacceptable, not to be tolerated, not to be wooed, not to be conspired with. Only then can music, dance, movies, plays, rap be about life. Only then can life be cherished and adored.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of expressing authentic emotions during mourning rather than suppressing them.
Ruby Dee highlights the necessity of allowing oneself to experience and express deep emotional reactions to death, arguing that true appreciation of life comes from processing grief openly. By acknowledging feelings like indignation and anger, individuals pave the way for celebrating life through various forms of art, hence cherishing and adoring it more deeply.
Themes
DeathGriefEmotionLifeArt
In practice
Example use cases
During a eulogy, you could use this quote to illustrate the importance of expressing sorrow.
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We both grew up in the atmosphere of struggle, both Ossie and me, ... I come out of Harlem and Harlem comes out of me - wailing police sirens and street parties, rumors and landlords, that cultural, spiritual scene. And Ossie came up from the South, where struggle and dying were part of everyday life. That is who we are.
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