If you have a problem and you can't find a solution, you meet again tomorrow and you keep talking until you find a solution. You can disagree with behavior or a particular position, but you do not resort to calling an opponent worthless.
Interpretation
Continual dialogue is essential for problem-solving, and respect for others must be maintained regardless of disagreement.
This quote emphasizes the importance of persistent communication in addressing problems and finding solutions. Kofi Annan advocates for a respectful approach to disagreement, suggesting that while one can criticize behavior or viewpoints, it is crucial to recognize the inherent worth of the individuals involved in the dialogue, thereby fostering a constructive and collaborative environment.
In practice
In a team meeting where conflicting ideas arise, I can use this quote to encourage open dialogue.
Let us remember the large numbers of citizens who, day in and day out, through acts of volunteerism large and small, bring hope to so many of the world's disadvantaged. Let us ensure that this wonderful resource, available in abundance to every nation, is recognized and supported as it works towards a more prosperous and peaceful world.
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... the long-lasting humanitarian impact of these inhuman weapons continues to deny communities the opportunity to rebuild long after the end of the conflicts.
I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.
Creditors have better memories than debtors.
The desire is thy prayers; and if thy desire is without ceasing, thy prayer will also be without ceasing. The continuance of your longing is the continuance of your prayer.
It is not the number of books you read; nor the variety of sermons which you hear; nor the amount of religious conversation in which you mix: but it is the frequency and the earnestness with which you meditate on these things, till the truth which may be in them becomes your own, and part of your own being, that ensures your spiritual growth.
Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we're stuck.
You never find yourself until you face the truth.
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