How do you listen? Do you listen with your projections, through your projection, through your ambitions, desire, fears, anxieties, through hearing only what you want to hear, only what will be satisfactory, what will gratify, what will give comfort, what will for the moment alleviate your suffering? If you listen through the screen of your desires, then you obviously listen to your own voice.
Interpretation
Listening deeply requires setting aside our personal biases and desires.
This quote emphasizes the importance of true listening, which involves going beyond our own projections and desires. When we listen through our fears or ambitions, we fail to hear others genuinely and only echo our own thoughts, limiting our understanding and connection with the speaker.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, to illustrate the importance of deep listening, one might quote this saying.
The following of authority is the denial of intelligence. [It] may help us temporarily to cover up our difficulties and problems; but to avoid a problem is only to intensify it, and in the process, self-knowledge and freedom are abandoned.
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If you listen through the screen of your desires, then you obviously listen to your own voice; you are listening to your own desires.
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Meditation is one of the greatest arts in life - perhaps the greatest, and one cannot possibly learn it from anybody, that is the beauty of it.
All of us have been trained by education and environment to seek personal gain and security and to fight for ourselves. Though we cover it over with pleasant phrases, we have been educated for various professions within a system which is based on exploitation and acquisitive fear.
For I have neither wit, nor words, nor worth, Action, nor utterance, nor the power of speech, To stir men's blood: I only speak right on; I tell you that which you yourselves do know.
No one is to blame for our miseries but ourselves.
Your thoughts make you what you are; by changing our # thoughts we can change our lives.
One can either work or meet. One cannot do both at the same time.
There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
Whatever we focus on is bound to expand. Where we see the negative, we call forth more negative. And where we see the positive, we call forth more positive. Having loved and lost, I now love more passionately. Having won and lost, I now win more soberly. Having tasted the bitter, I now savor the sweet.
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