How do you listen? Do you listen with your projections, through your projection, through your ambitions, desire, fears, anxieties, through hearing only what you want to hear, only what will be satisfactory, what will gratify, what will give comfort, what will for the moment alleviate your suffering? If you listen through the screen of your desires, then you obviously listen to your own voice.
Interpretation
Listening deeply requires setting aside our personal biases and desires.
This quote emphasizes the importance of true listening, which involves going beyond our own projections and desires. When we listen through our fears or ambitions, we fail to hear others genuinely and only echo our own thoughts, limiting our understanding and connection with the speaker.
In practice
In a workshop on effective communication, to illustrate the importance of deep listening, one might quote this saying.
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Most people would focus on concentrating more, and I can't do that. It almost makes me overthink a lot of my things. I have to focus on not thinking.
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