My number one piece of advice is: you should learn how to program.
The question isn't, 'What do we want to know about people?', It's, 'What do people want to tell about themselves?'
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This quote emphasizes the importance of understanding people's desires to share their stories rather than merely seeking information about them.
Mark Zuckerberg highlights a fundamental aspect of human interaction: the need to listen to what individuals wish to express about their own lives. This perspective shifts the focus from a one-sided inquiry to a mutual exchange where individuals feel valued for their narratives and experiences. By prioritizing what people want to communicate, we foster deeper connections and understandings in relationships.
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In a discussion about social media, one might say this quote to emphasize the platform's purpose of fostering genuine connections.
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All quotes →I literally coded Facebook in my dorm room and launched it from my dorm room. I rented a server for $85 a month, and I funded it by putting an ad on the side, and we've funded ever since by putting ads on the side.
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