I traffic in empathy. I try to be vulnerable with people so they can be vulnerable back. I've always been searching for empathy in other people. It's when I feel most not alone.
Jose Antonio VargasRead
Of all the questions I get asked as an undocumented immigrant in the United States, there are two - asked in various permutations via email, social media or in person - that chill me to the bone: 'Why don't you just make yourself legal?' And: 'Why don't you get in the back of the line?'
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the struggles and misconceptions faced by undocumented immigrants regarding their legal status.
In this quote, Jose Antonio Vargas reflects on the experiences and challenges he faces as an undocumented immigrant in the United States. He points out the questions that people often ask him, which reveal a lack of understanding about the complexities of immigration and legal status. The chilling effect of these questions underscores the difficulties immigrants encounter when navigating the legal system and the assumptions made by society about their choices and circumstances.
Themes
ImmigrationUndocumentedLegal StatusStruggleMisconceptions
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in discussions about immigration reform.
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