I am like a man so busy in letting rooms in one end of his house, that he can't stop to put out the fire that is burning the other.
Abraham LincolnRead
When I am getting ready to reason with a man, I spend one-third of my time thinking about myself and what I am going to say and two-thirds about him and what he is going to say.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Effective communication involves understanding both yourself and the other person's perspective.
This quote by Abraham Lincoln emphasizes the importance of empathy in conversations. It highlights that successful reasoning or argumentation requires not only preparation on one's own views but significantly more consideration of the other individual's thoughts and responses, suggesting that true understanding and productive dialogue stem from prioritizing the perspective of others.
Themes
CommunicationEmpathyUnderstandingDialogueReasoning
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote during a workshop on effective communication.
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