Sober up, and you see and hear everything you'd been able to avoid hearing before.
Sammy Davis, Jr.Read
Reality is never as bad as a nightmare, as the mental tortures we inflict on ourselves.
Interpretation
Our fears and anxieties often exaggerate our struggles, making them seem worse than they are.
This quote by Sammy Davis Jr. highlights the tendency of the human mind to create unrealistic fears and anxieties that can feel more torturous than the actual challenges we face in reality. It suggests that the mental anguish we impose on ourselves through negative thinking often overshadows the true situations we encounter, which are typically not as dire as our minds would lead us to believe.
In practice
During a motivational speech about overcoming self-doubt, this quote can remind the audience to confront their fears.
Sober up, and you see and hear everything you'd been able to avoid hearing before.
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I have a respect for Elvis and my friendship. It ain't my business what he did in private. The only thing I want to know is, 'Was he my friend?', 'Did I enjoy him as a performer?', 'Did he give the world of entertainment something?' - and the answer is YES on all accounts. The other jazz just don't matter.
Sometimes angels rush in where fools fear to tread.
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Learning to be silent is far more difficult and far more important than learning to recite prayers.
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Wisdom is not attained by years, but by ability
Live out of your imagination, not your history.
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