Always' was a promise! How can you just break the promise?" "Sometimes people don't always understand the promises they're making when they make them," I said. Isaac shot me a look. "Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That's what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway. Don't you believe in true love?" I didn't answer. I didn't have an answer. But I thought that if true love did exist, that was a pretty good definition of it.
And I don't really have anyone upon whom I want to rain down my wrath," I said, because in truth I didn't. I always felt like you had to be important to have enemies. Example: Historically, Germany has had more enemies than Luxembourg, Margo Roth Spiegelman was Germany. And Great Britain. And the United States. And czarist Russia. Me, I'm Luxembourg. Just sitting around, tending sheep, and yodeling.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker reflects on the nature of conflict and the significance of having enemies, emphasizing the idea that one must hold importance to have adversaries.
In this quote, John Green uses the analogy of countries to illustrate a deeper commentary on self-worth and societal standing. The speaker compares themselves to Luxembourg, a small and seemingly unimportant nation, suggesting that without significant influence or importance, one is less likely to attract enemies. This comparison serves to highlight feelings of insignificance and the notion that having adversaries is often a byproduct of being prominent or impactful, while also expressing a contentment in living a peaceful, uncomplicated life free from hostility.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about personal growth, one might quote this to illustrate the idea that not all conflict is necessary for a fulfilling life.
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