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Rejoice with those who rejoice." I have found that difficult too often. I was much better at weeping with those who weep.
Marilynne Robinson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the challenge of sharing in others' joy compared to their sorrow.

Marilynne Robinson reflects on the human tendency to empathize more easily with those who are suffering than with those who are celebrating. This creates a struggle for individuals who find it harder to express joy for others, yet find comfort in providing support during difficult times.

Themes

JoySorrowEmpathyFriendshipRelationshipsCelebrationSupport

In practice

Example use cases

During a friend’s wedding, one might use this quote to highlight the importance of celebrating happiness together.

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