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The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves.
Eric Hoffer
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Our treatment of others is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.

This quote highlights the profound connection between our self-perception and how we engage with others. It suggests that love, hate, tolerance, forgiveness, and sacrifice towards others are deeply intertwined with our feelings and attitudes towards ourselves. The essence of the quote is that our interactions with our neighbors mirror our relationship with our own self-worth and acceptance, indicating that our internal state profoundly influences our external behavior.

Themes

Self-LoveRelationshipsForgivenessToleranceSacrifice

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about mental health, you might use this quote to illustrate the importance of self-acceptance.

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