Sometimes a person needs a story more than food to stay alive.
Barry LopezRead
Remember on this one thing, said Badger. The stories people tell have a way of taking care of them. If stories come to you, care for them. And learn to give them away where they are needed. Sometimes a person needs a story more than food to stay alive. That is why we put these stories in each other's memories. This is how people care for themselves.
Interpretation
Stories are vital to our well-being and connection with others.
This quote emphasizes the importance of stories in human life, suggesting that they are as essential as physical sustenance. Badger's words highlight how stories not only nurture the tellers and listeners but also forge meaningful connections between individuals, making storytelling an act of caring and sharing within communities.
In practice
During a community gathering, a speaker emphasized the role of stories in bringing people together, quoting Barry Lopez.
Sometimes a person needs a story more than food to stay alive.
We keep each other alive with our stories. We need to share them, as much as we need to share food. We also require for our health the presence of good companions. One of the most extraordinary things about the land is that it knows this—and it compels language from some of us so that as a community we may converse about this or that place, and speak of the need.
The land retains an identity of its own, still deeper and more subtle than we can know. Our obligation toward it then becomes simple: to approach with an uncalculating mind, with an attitude of regard...be alert for its openings, for that moment when something sacred reveals itself within the mundane, and you know the land knows you are there.
The land is like poetry: it is inexplicably coherent, it is transcendent in its meaning, and it has the power to elevate a consideration of human life.
The cold view to take of our future is that we are therefore headed for extinction in a universe of impersonal chemical, physical, and biological laws. A more productive, certainly more engaging view, is that we have the intelligence to grasp what is happening, the composure not to be intimidated by its complexity, and the courage to take steps that may bear no fruit in our lifetimes.
Over the years, one comes to measure a place, too, not just for the beauty it may give, the balminess of its breezes, the insouciance and relaxation it encourages, the sublime pleasures it offers, but for what it teaches. The way in which it alters our perception of the human. It is not so much that you want to return to indifferent or difficult places, but that you want to not forget.
We have a stake in one another...what binds us together is greater than what drives us apart.
It is still more likely that a woman's power would be seen as aggression, and a man's power would be seen as assertion.
I love being a wife and homemaker - because it's my choice. My husband doesn't expect me to do it. I don't mind doing things for him because he does so much for me; we both feel that way so there is no power struggle.
Friends are generally of the same sex, for when men and women agree, it is only in the conclusions; their reasons are always different.
I'm re-energized by being around people who mean a lot to me.
I am confident that nobody... will accuse me of selfishness if I ask to spend time, while I am still in good health, with my family, my friends and also with myself.
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