To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
Benjamin FranklinRead
Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.
Interpretation
What this quote means
It is important to be mindful of our words, both in choosing the right ones to say and in knowing when to remain silent.
This quote emphasizes the art of communication and the importance of timing in our interactions. While it's commendable to speak appropriately in various situations, the greater challenge lies in exercising restraint and knowing when to refrain from saying something that could be hurtful or inappropriate, especially when provoked by emotions or temptations to respond impulsively.
Themes
CommunicationSilenceRestraintWisdomSelf-Control
In practice
Example use cases
During a heated discussion, it is wise to remember this quote to avoid escalating the situation.
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