Today, I will focus on what's right about me. I will give myself some of the caring I've extended to the world.
Melody BeattieRead
Choosing to take responsibility for ourselves and for the consequences our choices create looks like hard work, but it really sets us free.
Interpretation
Taking responsibility for our choices can be challenging but ultimately liberates us.
This quote emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in our lives. By acknowledging and accepting the consequences of our actions, we empower ourselves to make better decisions and live authentically, despite the initial effort it may require. This journey of self-ownership fosters true freedom and growth, allowing us to break free from blame and external pressures.
In practice
This quote could be used in a personal development workshop to inspire participants to take ownership of their actions.
Today, I will focus on what's right about me. I will give myself some of the caring I've extended to the world.
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What greater wealth is there than to own your life and to spend it on growing? Every living thing must grow. It can't stand still. It must grow or perish.
I would like to see the day when somebody would be appointed surgeon somewhere who had no hands, for the operative part is the least part of the work.
One must shy away from questionable undertakings, even when they bear a high-sounding name.
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No man can reveal to you aught but that which already lies half asleep in the dawning of your knowledge. The teacher who walks in the shadow of the temple, among his followers, gives not of his wisdom but rather of his faith and his lovingness. If he is indeed wise he does not bid you enter the house of his wisdom, but rather leads you to the threshold of your own mind.
Take care what words you speak that follow βI am.β In so speaking you create your life.
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