If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Simone De BeauvoirRead
Retirement may be looked upon either as a prolonged holiday or as a rejection, a being thrown on to the scrap-heap.
Interpretation
Retirement can be seen positively as a chance to enjoy life or negatively as being discarded from society.
In this quote, Simone De Beauvoir presents a dual perspective on retirement. It can be interpreted as a period of relaxation and freedom, allowing individuals to pursue their interests and passions. Conversely, it can also be viewed as a phase of life where one feels rejected or obsolete, akin to being cast aside. This reflects the broader societal attitudes towards aging and the value placed on productivity.
In practice
During a retirement party, one might reflect on how retiring can mean a new beginning.
If you live long enough, you'll see that every victory turns into a defeat.
Two separate beings, in different circumstances, face to face in freedom and seeking justification of their existence through one another, will always live an adventure full of risk and promise." (p. 248)
To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job.
Sex pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.
As long as there have been men and they have lived, they have all felt this tragic ambiguity of their condition, but as long as there have been philosophers and they have thought, most of them have tried to mask it.
Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day. The housewife wears herself out marking time: she makes nothing, simply perpetuates the present β¦ Eating, sleeping, cleaning β the years no longer rise up towards heaven, they lie spread out ahead, grey and identical. The battle against dust and dirt is never won.
One certainty we all accept is the condition of being uncertain and insecure.
No destiny attacks us from outside. But, within him, man bears his fate and there comes a moment when he knows himself vulnerable; and then, as in a vertigo, blunder upon blunder lures him.
The world of reality has its limits; the world of imagination is boundless.
So you know how things stand. Now forget what they think of you. Be satisfied if you can live the rest of your life, however short, as your nature demands. Focus on that, and don't let anything distract you. You've wandered all over and finally realized that you never found what you were after: how to live. Not in syllogisms, not in money, or fame, or self-indulgence. Nowhere.
I have suffered from being misunderstood, but I would have suffered a hell of a lot more if I had been understood.
God has not bowed to our nervous haste nor embraced the methods of our machine age. The man who would know God must give time to Him.
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