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The Revelation of Sonmi 451 To be is to be perceived, and so to know thyself is only possible through the eyes of the other. The nature of our immortal lives is in the consequences of our words and deeds, that go on and are pushing themselves throughout all time. - Our lives are not our own. From womb to tomb, we are bound to others, past and present, and by each crime and every kindness, we birth our future.
David Mitchell
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Self-awareness comes from our interactions with others, and our actions shape our shared future.

This quote emphasizes the interconnectedness of human existence, suggesting that our identities and self-understanding are largely formed through relationships with others. It asserts that our actions—both positive and negative—have lasting impacts that extend beyond our individual lives, influencing future generations and the world at large. The idea that 'to be is to be perceived' reinforces the notion that self-knowledge is not merely inward reflection but is also deeply tied to how we are seen and understood by those around us.

Themes

Self-AwarenessInterconnectednessImpactActionsRelationships

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the importance of community, this quote can illustrate how our actions affect others.

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