They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
Edith WhartonRead
I was just a screw or cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the feeling of insignificance and loss of purpose when one feels disconnected from the larger systems of life.
Edith Wharton's quote expresses a deep sense of existential angst, as it portrays life as a great machine in which individuals play small, yet crucial, roles. When one feels they no longer fit or are needed within this machine, it can lead to feelings of lack of purpose and worth, highlighting how interconnected our roles and identities are within the broader societal framework.
In practice
In a speech about finding purpose in retirement, one might quote this to reflect on the importance of roles in life.
They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
They seemed to come suddenly upon happiness as if they had surprised a butterfly in the winter woods
Set wide the window. Let me drink the day.
And I wonder, among all the tangles of this mortal coil, which one contains tighter knots to undo, & consequently suggests more tugging, & pain, & diversified elements of misery, than the marriage tie.
As he paid the hansom and followed his wife's long train into the house he took refuge in the comforting platitude that the first six months were always the most difficult in marriage. 'After that I suppose we shall have pretty nearly finished rubbing off each other’s angles,' he reflected; but the worst of it was that May's pressure was already bearing on the very angles whose sharpness he most wanted to keep
There are two ways to spread happiness; either be the light who shines it or be the mirror who reflects it.
Glorious indeed is the world of God around us, but more glorious the world of God within us.
One of the great tragedies of mankind is that morality has been hijacked by religion. So now people assume that religion and morality have a necessary connection. But the basis of morality is really very simple and doesn't require religion at all.
God does not die on the day when we cease to believe in a personal deity, but we die on the day when our lives cease to be illumined by the steady radiance, renewed daily, of a wonder, the source of which is beyond all reason.
Veganism has given me a higher level of awareness and spirituality, primary because the energy associated with eating has shifted to other areas. If you’re violent to yourself by putting [harmful] things into your body that violate its spirit, it will be difficult not to perpetuate that [violence] onto someone else.
Gentlemen, I am tormented by questions; answer them for me.
Not all thinking and all emotion are of the ego. They turn into ego only when you identify with them and they take you over completely, that is to say, when they become "I".
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