Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-brake on.
Maxwell MaltzRead
Our self image, strongly held, essentially determines what we become.
Interpretation
Our beliefs about ourselves shape our reality and future outcomes.
This quote by Maxwell Maltz emphasizes the profound impact that our self-perception has on our actions and success in life. If we hold a strong, positive image of ourselves, we are more likely to pursue our goals with confidence and determination, ultimately shaping our destinies in accordance with that self-image.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-improvement.
Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-brake on.
Of all the traps and pitfalls in life, self-disesteem is the deadliest, and the hardest to overcome: for it is a pit designed and dug by our own hands, summed up in the phrase, 'It's no use - I can't do it.'
Your nervous system cannot tell the difference between an imagined experience and a 'real' experience. In either case, it reacts automatically to information which you give to it from your forebrain. Your nervous system reacts appropriately to what you THINK or IMAGINE to be 'true.
The 'self-image' is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the self image and you change the personality and the behavior.
Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed possible.
What is opportunity, and when does it knock? It never knocks. You can wait a whole lifetime, listening, hoping, and you will hear no knocking. None at all. You are opportunity, and you must knock on the door leading to your destiny. You prepare yourself to recognize opportunity, to pursue and seize opportunity as you develop the strength of your personality, and build a self-image with which you are able to live - with your self-respect alive and growing.
You want to cry aloud for your mistakes. But to tell the truth the world doesn't need any more of that sound.
Instead of announcing what you are about to tell is interesting, make it so.
If I meet other people and criticize their weaknesses, I rob myself of higher cognitive power. But if I try to enter deeply and lovingly into another person's good qualities, I gather in that force.
You need to constantly remind yourself what is the most important thing that is happening in the world - what is the most important thing that is happening in history. The discipline to have this focus is something I gained from meditation.
Just know what is happening in your mind - not happy or sad about it, not attached. If you suffer see it, know it, and be empty. It's like a letter - you have to open it before you can know what's in it.
Allah will never disappoint the sincere caller. Even when you think He hasnβt answered you, He plans in your favor.
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