To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
Mahatma GandhiRead
Sense perceptions can be and often are false and deceptive, however real they may appear to us. Where there is realization outside the senses, it is infallible. It is proved not by extraneous evidence but in the transformed conduct and character of those who have felt the real presence of God within.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that our sensory experiences can mislead us, but true understanding comes from inner realization.
Mahatma Gandhi emphasizes the idea that sensory perceptions can deceive us, even if they seem real. True knowledge and understanding arise from a deeper realization that transcends ordinary perception, evidenced by the transformation in one's character and behavior, which reflects a genuine connection with the divine or a higher truth.
In practice
In a discussion about spirituality, this quote can be used to illustrate the importance of inner realization over superficial understanding.
To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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