I think it is selfish for me to try to frame Me Too as something that I own. It is bigger than me and bigger than Alyssa Milano. Neither one of us should be centered in this work. This is about survivors.
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There are a series of emotions that most survivors go through after disclosing. It starts with feeling great, like the weight on your shoulders has been lifted, and then you're alone with your thoughts, like, 'Why did I do that?' And then, what about the person who gets backlash?
Interpretation
What this quote means
Survivors often experience a complex emotional journey after sharing their experiences.
This quote by Tarana Burke reflects the intricate emotional process that survivors face after disclosing their experiences, emphasizing the initial relief they may feel, followed by self-doubt and concern for the potential fallout from their revelation. It highlights the duality of seeking support through sharing, while also dealing with the implications and repercussions that come with it.
Themes
SurvivorEmotionsDisclosureSupportBacklash
In practice
Example use cases
In a mental health awareness seminar, discussing how sharing traumatic experiences can help others.
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