Conceal a flaw, and the world will imagine the worst.
MartialRead
Service cannot be expected from a friend in service; let him be a freeman who wishes to be my master.
Interpretation
True friendship does not involve obligation or servitude; genuine relationships are based on freedom and mutual respect.
In this quote, Martial emphasizes that friendship should be free of expectations and obligations. A true friend acts out of goodwill, not because they are obliged to serve or obey; thus, relationships founded on freedom rather than domination or servitude are essential for authenticity and respect.
In practice
Using this quote in a speech about the nature of true friendships at a gathering.
Conceal a flaw, and the world will imagine the worst.
Life is not merely to be alive, but to be well.
To the ashes of the dead glory comes too late.
Life's not just about being alive, but being well.
My poems are naughty, but my life is pure.
Neither fear your death's day nor long for it.
Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit and gives a certain air to the countenance which is more amiable than beauty.
Frank Zappa was one of the gods of the Czech underground, I thought of him as a friend. Whenever I feel like escaping from the world of the Presidency, I think of him.
Always keep good company. Never waste an hour with anyone who doesn't lift you up and encourage you.
Do not keep on with a mockery of friendship after the substance is gone - but part, while you can part friends. Bury the carcass of friendship: it is not worth embalming.
I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends.
When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun.'
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