Conceal a flaw, and the world will imagine the worst.
MartialRead
Service cannot be expected from a friend in service; let him be a freeman who wishes to be my master.
Interpretation
True friendship does not involve obligation or servitude; genuine relationships are based on freedom and mutual respect.
In this quote, Martial emphasizes that friendship should be free of expectations and obligations. A true friend acts out of goodwill, not because they are obliged to serve or obey; thus, relationships founded on freedom rather than domination or servitude are essential for authenticity and respect.
In practice
Using this quote in a speech about the nature of true friendships at a gathering.
Conceal a flaw, and the world will imagine the worst.
Life is not merely to be alive, but to be well.
To the ashes of the dead glory comes too late.
Life's not just about being alive, but being well.
My poems are naughty, but my life is pure.
Neither fear your death's day nor long for it.
Sweet is the memory of distant friends! Like the mellow rays of the departing sun, it falls tenderly, yet sadly, on the heart.
A blessed thing it is to have a friend; one human soul whom we can trust utterly; who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults; who will speak the honest truth to us, while the world flatters us to our face, and laughs at us behind our back; who will give us counsel and reproof in a day of prosperity and self-conceit; but who, again, will comfort and encourage us in days of difficulty and sorrow, when the world leaves us alone to fight our own battle as we can.
The old Dodgers were something special, but of my teammates overall, there was nobody like Pee Wee Reese for me.
I maintain that, if everyone knew what others said about him, there would not be four friends in the world.
Your corn is ripe today; mine will be so tomorrow. 'Tis profitable for us both, that I should labour with you today, and that you should aid me tomorrow.
Whoever understands how to do a kindness when he fares well would be a friend better than any possession.
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