Safe, sane and consensual what do those words really mean? Assimilation, that's what.

- Laura Antoniou

Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality.

- Laura Antoniou

This used to be about sex. The literature of my people was pornography, filled with cries for mercy, drama enacted on people without prolonged negoti…

- Laura Antoniou

What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is bad.

- Laura Antoniou

A slave's life is mostly composed of patience and study. Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior slaves. …

- Laura Antoniou

The trouble is, SMers are allowing themselves to be defined by what they are not. We think, "Oh, so many people believe that we're all murderers and …

- Laura Antoniou