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Those who are silent, self-effacing and attentive become the recipients of confidences.
Thornton Wilder
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Being quiet and attentive allows others to confide in you.

This quote by Thornton Wilder emphasizes the value of listening and being modest. When individuals approach conversations with a quiet demeanor and genuine attentiveness, they create a safe space for others to share their thoughts and feelings, ultimately fostering deeper connections and trust in relationships.

Themes

ListeningConfidencesRelationshipsTrustModesty

In practice

Example use cases

In a personal development seminar where team building is emphasized.

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