My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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There is simply no dignified way for a woman to live alone. Oh, she can get along financially perhaps (though not nearly as well as a man), but emotionally she is never left in peace. Her friends, her family, her fellow workers never let her forget that her husbandlessness, her childlessness - her selfishness, in short - is a reproach to the American way of life.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the societal pressures and emotional struggles faced by women who live alone.
Erica Jong's quote reflects the cultural stigma associated with women living independently in a society that often devalues their choices. It suggests a belief that women, when single, are judged for not fulfilling traditional roles of marriage and motherhood, leading to feelings of isolation and reproach that are reinforced by their social circles and society at large.
Themes
WomenIndependenceSocietyLonelinessEmotionalJudgment
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about women's rights, this quote can highlight the emotional challenges faced by single women.
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