I don't think anybody can be told how to act. I think you can give advice. But you have to find your own way through it.
Judi DenchRead
Since Michael died I think I've worked constantly. Friends and colleagues are very sustaining. They're the people who get you through it... It's no good to be on your own.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of friends and support during difficult times.
Judi Dench reflects on the profound impact of losing a loved one, in this case, Michael. She highlights that during such painful moments, the support of friends and colleagues becomes a crucial lifeline, affirming that one should not navigate grief alone but rely on the company and companionship of others to cope and heal.
Themes
GriefSupportFriendshipLossHealing
In practice
Example use cases
During a eulogy, sharing this quote highlights the importance of community in coping with loss.
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