Nobody reads the disclosures that roll down your computer screen. You click 'I agree' but you don't know what you're agreeing to.
Nassim Nicholas TalebRead
What organized dating sites fail to understand is that the people are far more interesting in what they don't say about themselves.
Interpretation
People's unspoken qualities are often more intriguing than what they disclose about themselves.
Nassim Nicholas Taleb highlights that organized dating sites often miss the mark by focusing too much on the explicit information that individuals provide. Instead, he suggests that the unexpressed thoughts, feelings, and characteristics people hold can reveal much more about their true selves, making them ultimately more fascinating than their overtly stated attributes.
In practice
This quote could be used in a discussion about the flaws of online dating profiles at a relationship workshop.
Nobody reads the disclosures that roll down your computer screen. You click 'I agree' but you don't know what you're agreeing to.
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Company, villainous company, hath been the spoil of me.
Make your interactions with people transformational, not just transactional.
If most men and women were forced to rely upon physical charm to attract lovers, their sexual lives would be not only meager but in a youth-worshiping country like America painfully brief.
A little girl came home from school with a drawing she'd made in class.She danced into the kitchen ,where her mother was preparing dinner. "Mom,guess what ?" she squealed waving the drawing . her mother never looked up. "what"? she said ,tending to the pots. "guess what?" the child repeated ,waving the drawings. "what?" the mother said , tending to the plates. "Mom, you're not listening" "sweetie,yes I am" "Mom" the child said "you're not listening with your EYES
...but before I can live with other folks I've got to live with myself.
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