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What organized dating sites fail to understand is that the people are far more interesting in what they don't say about themselves.
Nassim Nicholas Taleb
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What this quote means

People's unspoken qualities are often more intriguing than what they disclose about themselves.

Nassim Nicholas Taleb highlights that organized dating sites often miss the mark by focusing too much on the explicit information that individuals provide. Instead, he suggests that the unexpressed thoughts, feelings, and characteristics people hold can reveal much more about their true selves, making them ultimately more fascinating than their overtly stated attributes.

Themes

DatingRelationshipsCommunicationMysterySelf-Discovery

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used in a discussion about the flaws of online dating profiles at a relationship workshop.

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