What St. Francis and St. Dominic have done, that, by God's grace, I will do.
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Be slow to speak, and only after having first listened quietly, so that you may understand the meaning, leanings, and wishes of those who do speak. Thus you will better know when to speak and when to be silent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Listen carefully before speaking to better understand others' thoughts and needs.
This quote emphasizes the importance of active listening before responding. By taking the time to listen quietly, one can grasp the depth of the speaker's message, intentions, and desires, which leads to more thoughtful and effective communication. Understanding others is key to knowing when to voice your own thoughts and when to remain silent.
Themes
ListeningCommunicationUnderstandingPatienceWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, I will remind my colleagues to be slow to speak and listen actively to each other's ideas.
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