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I am slowly, painfully discovering that my refuge is not found in my mother, my grandmother, of even the birds of Bear River. My refuge exists in my capacity to love. If I can learn to love death then I can begin to find refuge in change.
Terry Tempest Williams
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True refuge comes from within oneself and the ability to embrace love, even in the face of loss.

In this quote, Terry Tempest Williams reflects on the journey of understanding that true solace does not lie in external sources, such as family or nature, but rather in one's ability to love deeply. By recognizing the importance of love, including the acceptance of death, one can find comfort and resilience in the constant changes of life.

Themes

RefugeLoveChangeAcceptanceResilience

In practice

Example use cases

During a speech about embracing change after loss, you might quote this to emphasize the importance of internal strength.

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