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I suppose society is wonderfully delightful. To be in it is merely a bore. But to be out of it is simply a tragedy.
Oscar Wilde
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Oscar Wilde reflects on the paradox of society, suggesting that while it may seem delightful, participation in it can be tedious, yet exclusion brings sorrow.

This quote by Oscar Wilde captures the duality of societal engagement. On one hand, Wilde acknowledges the allure and charm of society, which can be enticing and delightful. However, he juxtaposes this with the tediousness of being part of it, implying that social interactions and norms can often be mundane or exhausting. Finally, he points out the sorrow of being excluded from society, suggesting that while participation may be boring, isolation and having to live outside societal structures is a tragic state. Thus, Wilde encapsulates the complexities of social life, presenting it as a blend of enjoyment, ennui, and tragedy.

Themes

SocietyDelightBoreTragedyEngagementIsolation

In practice

Example use cases

During a discussion on social structures, this quote could illustrate the dual nature of societal engagement.

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