The Army might screw you and your girlfriend might dump you and the enemy might kill you, but the shared commitment to safeguard one another’s lives is unnegotiable and only deepens with time. The willingness to die for another person is a form of love that even religions fail to inspire, and the experience of it changes a person profoundly.
Society can give its young men almost any job and they'll figure how to do it. They'll suffer for it and die for it and watch their friends die for it, but in the end, it will get done. That only means that society should be careful about what it asks for. ... Soldiers themselves are reluctant to evaluate the costs of war, but someone must. That evaluation, ongoing and unadulterated by politics, may be the one thing a country absolutely owes the soldiers who defend its borders.
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What this quote means
This quote highlights the burden placed on young men by society, particularly regarding war and its costs, and emphasizes the need for a careful evaluation of these costs.
Sebastian Junger reflects on the immense responsibility that society places on young men, particularly in the context of war. He acknowledges that while they are capable of performing their duties and fulfilling requests from society, often at great personal cost, there is a dire need for a critical and honest assessment of the consequences of such demands. Junger argues that understanding the true costs of war is a moral obligation that society owes to those who put their lives on the line to defend it.
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In a discussion about the responsibilities of citizens in a democratic society.
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