My dear heart, never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbor bad thoughts, do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know.
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When someone is counting out gold for you, don't look at your hands, or the gold. Look at the giver.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Focus on the intentions of the giver rather than the material wealth being offered.
This quote by Rumi emphasizes the importance of recognizing the value of the relationships and intentions behind gifts rather than being blinded by the allure of material possessions. It suggests that the significance of a gift lies not in the gift itself, but in the thoughtfulness and generosity of the person giving it, encouraging us to appreciate the deeper connections we have with others.
Themes
GiftGiverRelationshipsMaterialismWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about gratitude, one might reference this quote to illustrate the importance of valuing relationships over material wealth.
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