A broken heart in real life isn't half as dreadful as it is in books. It's a good deal like a bad tooth, though you won't think THAT a very romantic simile. It takes spells of aching and gives you a sleepless night now and then, but between times it lets you enjoy life and dreams and echoes and peanut candy as if there were nothing the matter with it.
When I think something nice is going to happen I seem to fly right up on the wings of anticipation; and then the first thing I realize I drop down to earth with a thud. But really, Marilla, the flying part is glorious as long as it lasts. . . it's like soaring through a sunset. I think it almost pays for the thud.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses the beauty of hope and anticipation despite the inevitable disappointments that may follow.
In this quote, Lucy Maud Montgomery reflects on the bittersweet nature of expectations and hope. While the anticipation of something wonderful can lift us up and create a feeling of joy, the reality may not always match our dreams, leading to disappointment. However, she emphasizes that the joy of dreaming and soaring in those moments of anticipation is valuable in itself, making the eventual fall more bearable. It's an appreciation of the highs and lows of emotional experiences.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about dealing with life's ups and downs, one might conclude with this quote to emphasize the importance of hope.
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Gilbert darling, don't let's ever be afraid of things. It's such dreadful slavery. Let's be daring and adventurous and expectant. Let's dance to meet life and all it can bring to us, even if it brings scads of trouble and typhoid and twins!" (Anne to Gilbert)
Youth is not a vanished thing but something that dwells forever in the heart.
I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.
She had dreamed some brilliant dreams during the past winter and now they lay in the dust around her. In her present mood of self-disgust, she could not immediately begin dreaming again. And she discovered that, while solitude with dreams is glorious, solitude without them has few charms.
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