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We cannot love something solely because it has been ignored. It must also be worthy of our attention.
Zadie Smith
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love should be directed towards things that deserve our attention, not just because they are overlooked.

Zadie Smith emphasizes that love is not just a response to neglect or oversight. It requires discernment; for love to be genuine and meaningful, it must be directed towards entities or individuals that merit our appreciation, rather than simply being a reaction to what has been ignored or forgotten.

Themes

LoveAttentionWorthinessAppreciation

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about relationships, this quote can be used to express the importance of valuing worthy partners.

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