Without strong communities, we cannot pull together during times of hardship. Our diversity turns from a source of strength to a source of conflict.
Vivek MurthyRead
I think sometimes in the focus on deep friendships and on romantic relationships, we can lose sight of how important the small connections we make are with strangers and with people that we may encounter for just a few seconds or a few minutes, whether it's the barista at our coffee shop or the stranger next to us on the subway.
Interpretation
Small connections with strangers can be just as meaningful as deep friendships and romantic relationships.
In this quote, Vivek Murthy emphasizes the significance of fleeting interactions we have with strangers in our daily lives. While many may prioritize deep friendships or romantic relationships, it is the small, seemingly trivial exchanges with others—like those with a barista or a stranger on public transport—that enrich our experiences and contribute to our sense of community and belonging.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion on the importance of community engagement.
Without strong communities, we cannot pull together during times of hardship. Our diversity turns from a source of strength to a source of conflict.
One of the things that happens in our regular lives is that when we're in moments of pain or feeling alone, we may hesitate to reach out to others because we may think - they're not going through the same experiences I am.
There's a tremendous sense of shame that people who are lonely feel. I say that as someone who felt ashamed of being lonely as a child and even at points during adulthood.
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Not to expose your true feelings to an adult seems to be instinctive from the age of seven or eight onwards.
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