I laugh, and it's laughter, not light, that casts out the darkness building within me, that reminds me I am still alive, even in this strange place where everything I've ever known is coming apart.
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I read somewhere, one, that crying defies scientific explanation. Tears are only meant to lubricate the eyes. There is no real reason for tear glands to overproduce tears at the behest of emotion. I think we cry to release the animal parts of us without losing our humanity. Because inside of me is a beast that snarls, and growls, and strains toward freedom, toward Tobias, and, above all, towards life. And as hard as I try, I cannot kill it.
Interpretation
Crying is a complex emotional response that reflects our humanity and the struggle between our primal instincts and civilized nature.
This quote explores the paradox of crying, suggesting that despite its scientific basis as mere lubrication for the eyes, tears hold deeper emotional significance. It illustrates the internal conflict between our wild instincts and our efforts to maintain our humanity, indicating that expressing vulnerability through tears allows us to access our true selves while acknowledging the untamed parts of our nature.
In practice
In a speech about emotional resilience, this quote can illustrate the importance of vulnerability.
I laugh, and it's laughter, not light, that casts out the darkness building within me, that reminds me I am still alive, even in this strange place where everything I've ever known is coming apart.
There are so many ways to be brave in this world. Sometimes bravery involves laying down your life for something bigger than yourself, or for someone else. Sometimes it involves giving up everything you have ever known, or everyone you have ever loved, for the sake of something greater. But sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it is nothing more than gritting your teeth through pain, and the work of every day, the slow walk toward a better life. That is the sort of bravery I must have now.
But I killed a man just like my mother did. David says it’s okay because I didn’t mean to, and because he was about to kill that little kid. But I’m pretty sure my mom didn’t mean to kill my dad, either, so what difference does that make, meaning or not meaning to do something? Accident or on purpose, the result is the same, and that’s one fewer life than there should be in the world.
My father has a way of persuading people without charm that has always confused me. He states his opinions as if they’re facts, and somehow his complete lack of doubt makes you believe him. That quality frightens me now, because I know what he told me: that I was broken, that I was worthless, that I was nothing. How many of those things did he make me believe?
The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.
Those who have little interest in spirituality shouldn’t think that human inner values don’t apply to you. The inner peace of an alert and calm mind are the source of real happiness and good health. Our human intelligence tells us which of our emotions are positive and helpful and which are damaging and to be restrained or avoided.
Let a man be endowed with ten virtues and have but one fault and the one fault will eclipse and darken all the virtues.
Worrying is like paying on a debt that may never come due.
In everything satiety closely follows the greatest pleasures.
You can accomplish by kindness what you cannot by force.
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